Christmas
Christmas Morning, Before Anything Else
Before the plans, the cooking and the rest of Christmas Day begins, give the morning somewhere to go slowly. Freshly squeezed orange juice, warm rolls, coffee, Christmas music and no particular reason to hurry.
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“A pace can become a Christmas tradition.”
Our Christmas morning is remarkably uneventful.
I mean that as a compliment.
Bas and I exchange our presents on Christmas Eve, so there isn't a pile of presents waiting to turn Christmas morning into an event the second we wake up.
Instead, we have breakfast.
Properly.
Freshly squeezed orange juice. Warm bread rolls from the oven. Coffee. Christmas music.
And no particular reason to hurry.
It's one of my favourite parts of Christmas.
Christmas breakfast doesn't need to be another performance
Search for Christmas breakfast ideas and you'll find spectacular things.
Elaborate French toast bakes. Cinnamon-roll constructions. Breakfast boards. Pancake stacks. Eggs cooked six different ways.
I love food, so I understand the temptation.
But I don't particularly want Christmas morning to begin with a kitchen project.
There will be cooking later.
Breakfast has a different job.
It slows the day down before the day has properly started.
Our Christmas morning breakfast
There isn't a complicated menu.
We have freshly squeezed orange juice and warm bake-off bread rolls.
Then there are the things we actually like having with them.
Coffee, obviously.
Christmas music is on.
The lights are already part of the room.
And we sit.
That's really it.
We spend so much time looking for ways to make Christmas more special that sometimes we accidentally make every part of it require effort.
Special and complicated aren't synonyms.
Pick one thing that makes breakfast feel different
You don't need a completely different breakfast personality for Christmas Day.
Take something you already like and add one thing that tells you this isn't an ordinary Wednesday morning.
For us, freshly squeezed orange juice does some of that work.
Maybe yours is really good croissants. A particular coffee. Smoked salmon. Cinnamon rolls. A favourite jam that only appears at Christmas. Champagne, if that's your idea of an excellent breakfast.
Whatever it is, choose something you genuinely look forward to rather than something that merely photographs well.
Use the oven, but don't become employed by it
This is why I like bake-off rolls at Christmas.
They go into the oven.
They come out warm.
The kitchen smells lovely.
And I haven't spent two hours making bread at six in the morning.
That is an excellent arrangement.
Convenience is allowed to be part of a beautiful Christmas.
Particularly when convenience gives you more time to actually be there.
Let the house do some of the work
Christmas morning already has an unfair advantage over ordinary breakfast.
The tree is there. The decorations are there. The lights are there. The Christmas music can go on.
You don't need to manufacture atmosphere from scratch.
At our house, lighting is automated, so throughout the Christmas season the lights become part of the rhythm of the day almost without thinking about them.
Put breakfast into that room and even something very simple feels different.
Put the phone down for a little while
I'm not suggesting some solemn Christmas digital detox where everyone has to surrender their phone at the door.
I like my phone.
But Christmas morning is one of those moments that disappears remarkably quickly if you immediately let the outside world into it.
Messages can wait for the first coffee.
Social media will survive without you.
Give the morning a little space before the rest of the world arrives.
Don't schedule the first part of the day too tightly
This might be the most important part of our Christmas breakfast.
There is no stopwatch.
If we're going somewhere later, fine.
But where possible, I want the beginning of Christmas Day protected from that.
It can take an hour. It can take longer. Another coffee can happen. A bread roll can mysteriously become a second bread roll.
Nobody is waiting to turn the table.
A pace can become a Christmas tradition
We often imagine traditions as activities.
Decorating the tree. Visiting a Christmas market. Watching a particular film. Opening presents on Christmas Eve.
But I think a pace can become a tradition too.
Our Christmas morning is slow.
That's the tradition.
The exact breakfast could change.
What I would miss is the feeling that, for the first part of Christmas Day, there is nowhere else we need to be.
If you're hosting later, make breakfast even easier
If I'm going to cook a larger Christmas meal later, I certainly don't need breakfast creating another washing-up situation.
Buy the bread beforehand.
Have the orange juice ready - or the oranges, if you're squeezing it fresh.
Set out whatever you can.
Make sure there's coffee.
Done.
Your culinary ambition can wake up later.
Create Your Own Christmas Morning
Decide the feeling before the menu
- If you want Christmas morning to feel more special, I wouldn't begin by searching for more recipes.
- I'd decide how you want the morning to feel.
- Slow? Excited? Indulgent? Quiet? Full of people? Just the two of you?
- Then build breakfast around that.
- Choose something warm.
- Add one thing you don't normally have.
- Put on the music you associate with Christmas.
- Turn on the tree lights.
- Make the coffee.
- Sit down.
- And don't immediately start preparing the next part of the day.
- Christmas will still be there when breakfast is finished.
- You don't have to rush towards it. You're already in it.
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Written by Esther
Esther is a photographer and storyteller, and the founder of Essy's Essentials - a seasonal home for stories, rituals, recipes and everyday luxuries.
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