The Working Life Edit
How to Set Career Goals When You’re Not Sure What Comes Next
Finding a direction in my forties, while the next role is still an open question.
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Making room to explore what comes next.
You can set career goals before you know your next job title. Begin with the work you enjoy, the strengths you want to use and the questions you still need to explore. Turn those questions into conversations and small actions, then let what you learn shape the next step.
I’m writing this from the middle of that process.
At the moment, I don’t know whether the right next role will become available within my organisation. That uncertainty is difficult. I have ambitions and ideas, but I don’t yet have a definite place to put them.
What I can do is investigate, speak to people and become more visible. I can also be honest with myself about the kind of work I would actually want to do.
Ask what sets your heart on fire
That is the question I keep coming back to: what sets my heart on fire?
Enjoying my work is one of the most important things in my career. I want to be interested in the problems I’m helping to solve and enthusiastic about the contribution I can make. If I already know a direction won’t make me happy, I’m unlikely to pursue it simply because it is available.
For me, the subjects that keep coming into focus are optimisation, innovation and AI. I’m curious about where organisations are going and how we prepare for what comes next.
I see a lot of possibility there. That is my own direction of interest, rather than a prediction that everyone should choose the same field.
If you’re exploring your next step, think about the conversations you naturally lean into. Which problems make you want to ask another question? Which ideas do you keep returning to after the meeting has finished?
Name the strengths you want to take with you
I’m becoming clearer about what I do well and what I enjoy within it.
I like forming teams and bringing people along. I often describe part of that as cheerleading: helping people feel safe, giving them a platform, recognising their talents and supporting their development.
I also enjoy getting projects moving and carrying them through. I’m comfortable stepping back to see the bigger picture, then thinking beyond tomorrow: what might be coming next month or next year, and how could the organisation prepare?
Those strengths give me something to work with even while the job title remains uncertain.
For your own exploration, choose a few strengths and write down a real example of each. What did you help make possible? What part did you play? Which part did you enjoy enough to want more of it?
That exercise is a suggestion you can use. It keeps the conversation connected to work you have actually done. If it helps to make a little room to write things down, journaling when your head feels full can be a quiet place to begin.
Look around before deciding where you belong
I’m finding out more about departments within my organisation that I don’t yet know well. I talk to people. I watch YouTube videos about careers for women over forty and listen for ideas that make me think.
There is a lot I’m still discovering. Someone else’s role can sound interesting from the outside, but a conversation may reveal the day-to-day work much more clearly.
Useful questions to take into an exploratory conversation include:
- What are the main problems your team is working on?
- Which skills are particularly valuable in this work?
- What does an ordinary week actually involve?
- Where do you expect the work to change?
- Is there someone else I could learn from?
You don’t have to arrive asking for a vacancy. You can start by trying to understand the work.
Become visible, even when it feels uncomfortable
Self-promotion doesn’t come naturally to me. Nevertheless, I’ve made myself be more active about it, including thinking about my visibility at head office.
People need to know what I’m interested in and what I can contribute. Keeping all of that in my own head won’t help them connect me with a conversation or opportunity.
If this feels awkward to you too, begin with something concrete: a piece of work you’ve done, a strength you enjoy using or a question you’re investigating. You can explain your direction without claiming to have everything worked out.
For example, someone might say: “I’m exploring work around innovation and organisational change. I’d value hearing how your team approaches it.” Adapt that to your own interests. It is an opening for a conversation, not a claim that a particular role is already yours.
Set goals you can act on while the outcome is uncertain
I can’t make a suitable role appear. I can keep learning about the organisation, talk to people and articulate my strengths more clearly.
If you’re in a similar position, a useful goal might be to arrange an exploratory conversation, understand one unfamiliar area of work or identify a skill you want to develop. Choose an action small enough to carry out and meaningful enough to teach you something.
Afterwards, ask what changed. Are you more interested? Less interested? What would you like to understand next?
You can adjust the direction as you learn. An option that turns out not to suit you is still information you didn’t have before.
Frequently Asked Questions
How can I set career goals without knowing what job I want?
Focus first on the work you enjoy, the strengths you want to use and the areas you want to explore. Set goals around conversations, learning and practical experience while your preferred role becomes clearer.
What if there isn’t a suitable vacancy yet?
You can investigate potential directions and make your interests known without assuming a role will appear. I’m currently doing that myself. Keep the distinction between the actions you control and the outcome you hope for.
How do I promote myself when it feels unnatural?
Start with specific experience and genuine interests. Describe what you contributed and what you would like to explore. For me, visibility is uncomfortable but useful; I’m learning to take part in those conversations anyway.
Do I need to have a complete career plan in my forties?
I don’t have my next step settled, and I’m actively exploring it. You can make considered decisions from where you are now, using the experience you already have and being open about what you still want to learn.
Still finding the answer
I would love to end this with a neat announcement about what comes next. I’m not there yet.
What I do have is a clearer sense of the work that interests me, the strengths I enjoy using and the conversations I need to have. For now, that is what I’m building on.
If you’re beginning a new year without a finished career plan, perhaps your first goal can be to understand your own direction a little better. It is a real step, even while the destination is still taking shape.
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Written by Esther, founder of Essy’s Essentials and a manager exploring her own next career step. This is a personal account, not a promise of a particular career outcome.

Written by Esther
Esther is a photographer and storyteller, and the founder of Essy's Essentials - a seasonal home for stories, rituals, recipes and everyday luxuries.
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